26th March 2008 (Wednesday) - Wei Yee's bday

Wondering why everyone post blog so efficient? it's just happened yesterday night, and hoho & shei wei got written it in their blog. Nonetheless, i want to be one of a quickest one! 

These gals are important to me, they are the best among the best friends of mine ;) i've chosen to go for weiyee's birthday celebration in Cafe 69, and dropped another birthday celebration of Mike's (ex G2 colleague) which Allie invited me earlier.. but, how can the gals' group photos without my appearance ler? NO WAY! 

I reach times square/ Cafe 69 at 7pm and we set dinner @ 8pm, i seldom be so punctual, no why, just because i come straight after worked... i walked alone in Times square, thought of buying something for WeiYee, but aii... nothing special, nothing nice.. Then, wanted to buy a watch for myself, but too bad, i want the silver one, but they only have black in color, gonna wait for another few days when their new stocks arrived. 

 

As usual the same gang of gals, the same gang of bf-s ;p attended the gathering haha... As usual, we eat, drink, chit chat & photo taken sessions.. these time we don't really take a lot photos. Everyone seems tired after worked or outing the whole day, and also because the "recently can be/ allowed to be lan-c & ba-pai 婆" (who else?) not feeling too well. Her mood darn down, and wanted to eat porridge, no others foods, why must be porridge? No why, because she likes it lorr, she feel like eating it, that's all...  我大晒，問你死沒！Haha, but we understand gehh... We'll also take care of her! We're still getting excited over it! We're also happy about her!! 

Meaningful article

It's a meaningful article, would like to share with whoever browse through my blog.. 

往往许多人在抉择伴侣时，容易东想西想，不知所措，就是因为害怕一时做错决定，看错人，造成终生的遗憾。

    诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说：「此时此刻在地球上，约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣，就看你先遇到哪一个，如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前，你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜、互相信赖的深层关系，那后者就会变成你的好朋友，但是若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系，感情就容易动摇、变心，直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情，才是幸福的开始，漂泊的结束」

    爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「际遇」，是上天的安排，但是「持续地爱一个人」就要靠「努力」，在爱情的经营中，顺畅运转的要素就是沟通、体谅、包容与自制(面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是为「际遇」所迷惑与苦恼，意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散，而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。

    所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的Mr. Right，而是要问说在眼前的伴侣关系中，我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度，若没有培养出经营幸福的能力，就算真的 Mr. Right出现在你身边，幸福依然会错过的，而活在犹疑与遗憾当中，这不就是许多「爱情虚无症」的遭遇与心态吗？

    若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣，不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了，我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱，就是「近亲生慢侮」，也就是经济学中的铁律「边际效益递减法则」，跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木与忽视，而新鲜的「际遇」总是那么动人可爱。

    在感情对待中，难免有摩擦与无心的伤害，而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人，当然是跟我们在一起最久、最亲近的人。而新欢呢，又还没开始有得罪你的机会，再加上他的刻意讨好，所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱，旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。

    但别忘了，新欢身上总是有不确定的未知数，旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感、确定感、信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的「际遇」中迷失了自己，错放了幸福温暖的手。

    所以萧伯纳的话，是要提醒情人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一，应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上，同时也提醒我们「溺水三千只取一瓢饮」若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣，就不要再三心二意了，因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个 ，所以要知福惜福 、活在当下

    勇气

    终于作了这个决定          别人怎么说我不理

    只要你也一样的肯定        我愿意天涯海角都随你去

    我知道一切不容易          我的心一直温习说服自己

    最怕你忽然说要放弃        爱真的需要勇气来面对流言蜚语

    只要你一个眼神肯定        我的爱就有意义

    我们都需要勇气            去相信会在一起
    人潮拥挤我能感觉你        放在我手心里你的真心

如果你未婚，希望你会得到一份意想不到的好姻缘，如果你已婚，那你的婚姻生活将更幸福、美满。

15th March 2008 - Gathering @ Shei Wei's house

It's a date where we set few weeks back, it has been delayed few times, it finally decided on 15th March 2008 (After sheiwei's bday on 3rd march & before weiyee's bday on 26th March). Whatever it is, i believe, everyone of us, did enjoyed & shared the happy moments together.. Actually, what makes us so happy and laugh terribly, happily? Maybe u did not realize, everyone of us, has a same preference, we love to take photos (oh, i knew myself very well and i did admitted it), we love to take photos very much. Is this a sickness? Can anyone tell me.. We are a bit too-much, too over, it's just a 5 hours gathering, we taken about 280++ pics with 5 cameras. (mine and chingyee's camera not even take out yet)

Party started 730pm, majority of us brought foods instead of cooks ourselves, even me myself, mum cooked curry chicken, other dishes we had likes lamb, beef, meehoon, noodles, fried rice, mango pudding & etc. 

Got a great news from Shei Wei, although she did not tell us personally but it's what we expected earlier on.. She is pregnant! it's really a great news to me! slowly later, will hear a lots from her about the experiences of stage of pregnant, give born & etc... 

I don't really know what makes me so happy and keep on smiling in heart when think of the gathering... Oppositely, sometimes when comes to a gathering likes this, i'll feel the loneliness instead.. But yet, it doesn't really affects me, i did and really enjoy the party and i did appreciate each of every time gathering likes this. Hope u were the same too ;) 

Love you all!